I am struggling with how to handle this situation. My husband and I have been married for 44 years, and we have one son who is married with a grandson. Five years ago, we decided to move closer to our son’s family to be near our grandson.

"It’s reached the point where I’m seriously considering divorce, as I no longer want to live with this constant tension and misery."

Adding to this, my husband strongly dislikes our son’s mother-in-law, which he has made very clear to me. He refuses to attend holiday dinners if she will be there. Our daughter

I’m so sorry for the pain and betrayal you’ve experienced. You’ve given so much of yourself to this relationship, and it’s heartbreaking that your loyalty and support haven’t been reciprocated. Please know that his actions are a reflection of his choices,

"At times, I find myself wanting revenge for the way he’s treated me, but I always calm myself down, realizing that it wouldn’t fix anything or make me feel better in the long run."